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Sometimes before you even get out of the car. A quick read of the street, the signage, the people going in.]]></description><link>https://www.lovebobu.com/post/we-gave-it-a-name-the-calculation</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a3423138db1dd05561f770e</guid><category><![CDATA[Safety and Belonging]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 17:24:27 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luciana Cousin</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Malta's Invisible Daughters]]></title><description><![CDATA[The only models of womanhood I saw were: virgin, mother, whore. The holy trinity of female possibility under Catholicism. None of those categories had space for what I was.

So I just felt wrong. Fundamentally wrong. Like there was something broken in me that everyone else was born with intact.]]></description><link>https://www.lovebobu.com/post/malta-s-invisible-daughters</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a341d5071a4e08b7b2145a8</guid><category><![CDATA[LGBTQ+ History]]></category><category><![CDATA[Religion and Identity]]></category><category><![CDATA[Colonialism and Culture]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 16:43:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ac6b5d_6be74f1434a04941bb26e5558815f959~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_833,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Luciana Cousin</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>