Love shouldn't require a risk assessment. But for LGBTQ+ people, it often does. Can I hold hands here? Do I mention my partner at work, or just say "my partner" and hope nobody asks a follow-up question? Some days, being yourself means running the numbers first. This guide is about the version of that calculation most people don't talk about: the one you shouldn't have to run inside your own relationship. It covers the warning signs that show up specifically in LGBTQ+ relatio